Don't you wish we could pick the people we love?" "Yeah," I say. "Or just make the people we love want the same things we want.

I try to be true to the characters that I've created and sometimes I disagree with them, but their opinions about the story and the characters really matter to me.

People generally didn't cheat in good relationships.

I will find the good in this loss. I will make something happen that wouldn't have happened otherwise.

But now I can see that there is redemption and beauty in an accident emanating from love.

I try to recognize that there is no such thing as having it all - and it's impossible to be perfect. You just have to let certain things go.

I still think I love him more. It's one of those things you never know for certain because there's no way to enter all the relationship data in a computer and have it spit out a definitive answer. You can't quantify love, and if you try, you wind up focusing on misleading factors.