Recognizing that there is more heartbreak in continuous disappointment than a void.

No matter what the circumstances. I am more like most men in this regard. No second chances. It's not so much about morality, but about my inability to forgive. I'm a champion grudge holder, and I don't think I could change this about myself even if I wanted to.

I try to recognize that there is no such thing as having it all - and it's impossible to be perfect. You just have to let certain things go.

There is no better audience for someone in love than someone in love.

Although I'm sure there are plenty of tall, gorgeous, life-of-the-party guys who are also true to their wives, I happen to believe that a disproportionate number of them are cheaters.

I have always been drawn to coming-of-age stories and books and movies featuring compelling young characters.

I've always loved sister stories in fiction, from the time I was little, reading about Beezus and Ramona. I've always wanted to write a sister story.