The fault of bad taste is usually in over-dressing. Quality not effect, is the standard to seek for.
Emily PostCourtesy demands that you, when you are a guest, shall show neither annoyance nor disappointment--no matter what happens.
Emily PostGood manners reflect something from inside-an innate sense of consideration for others and respect for self.
Emily PostThe only occasion when the traditions of courtesy permit a hostess to help herself before a woman guest is when she has reason to believe the food is poisoned.
Emily Post