Manners are made up of trivialities of deportment which can be easily learned if one does not happen to know them; manner is personality - the outward manifestation of one's innate character and attitude toward life.... Etiquette must, if it is to be of more than trifling use, include ethics as well as manners. Certainly what one is, is of far greater importance than what one appears to be.
Emily Post"Keep your hands to yourself!" might almost be put at the head of the first chapter of every book on etiquette.
Emily PostAn overdose of praise is like 10 lumps of sugar in coffee; only a very few people can swallow it.
Emily Post