It is wicked to withdraw from being useful to the needy, and cowardly to give way to the worthless.
EpictetusWhenever you are angry, be assured that it is not only a present evil, but that you have increased a habit.
EpictetusAnd be silent for the most part, or else make only the most necessary remarks, and express these in few words. But rarely, and when occasion requires you to talk, talk, indeed, but about no ordinary topics. Do not talk about gladiators, or horseraces, or athletes, or things to eat or drink - topics that arise on all occasions; but above all, do not talk about people, either blaming, or praising, or comparing them.
Epictetus