It was the first and most striking characteristic of Socrates never to become heated in discourse, never to utter an injurious or insulting word -- on the contrary, he persistently bore insult from others and thus put an end to the fray.
EpictetusIn trying to please other people, we find ourselves misdirected toward what lies outside our sphere of influence. In doing so, we lose our hold on our lifes purpose.
EpictetusNature hath given men one tongue but two ears, that we may hear from others twice as much as we speak.
EpictetusConsider first the nature of the business in hand; then examine thy own nature, whether thou hast strength to undertake it.
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