Never say about anything, "I have lost it," but only "I have given it back." Is your child dead? It has been given back. Is your wife dead? She has been returned.
EpictetusOn the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.
EpictetusKeep your attention focused entirely on what is truly your own concern, and be clear that what belongs to others is their business and none of yours.
Epictetus