When you want to hear a philosopher, do not say, 'You say nothing to me'; only show yourself worthy or fit to hear, and then you will see how you will move the speaker.
EpictetusThere is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.
EpictetusTwo principles we should always have ready โ that there is nothing good or evil save in the will; and that we are not to lead events, but to follow them.
EpictetusSome things are up to us [eph' hรชmin] and some things are not up to us. Our opinions are up to us, and our impulses, desires, aversionsโin short, whatever is our own doing. Our bodies are not up to us, nor are our possessions, our reputations, or our public offices, or, that is, whatever is not our own doing.
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