Imagine for yourself a character, a model personality, whose example you determine to follow, in private as well as in public.
EpictetusBe not swept off your feet by the vividness of the impression, but say, "Impression, wait for me a little. Let me see what you are and what you represent. Let me try you."
EpictetusThe materials are indifferent, but the use we make of them is not a matter of indifference.
EpictetusCommon and vulgar people ascribe all ills that they feel to others; people of little wisdom ascribe to themselves; people of much wisdom, to no one.
Epictetus