Do not strive for things occurring to occur as you wish, but wish the things occurring as they occur, and you will flow well.
EpictetusNever depend on the admiration of others for self-satisfaction. It is a fact of life that other people, even people who love you, will not necessarily agree with your ideas, understand you always, or share your enthusiasms.
EpictetusTry not to react merely in the moment. Pull back from the situation. Take a wider view. Compose yourself.
EpictetusHe is free who lives as he wishes to live; who is neither subject to compulsion nor to hindrance, nor to force; whose movements to action are not impeded, whose desires attain their purpose, and who does not fall into that which he would avoid.
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