Christianity = me moving out, God moving in.
Being a male capable of grunting, sweating, and not asking for directions, but not yet having conqured a women...in our culture, that wasn't manhood, that was dorksville!
Jesus says if you want to have me, you must give up that other thing that has you.
You're looking for counselors, there are 66 in the Bible.
When we pray in the name of Jesus, we carry the authority of heaven.
Everything that originates from God will endure the test of time. Therefore, it is good to check out the origins of everything to make sure they were started by God.