It's only when you're forbidden to talk about the future that you suddenly realize how much the future normally occupies the present.
Erica JongIt was easy enough to kill yourself in a fit of despair. It was easy enough to play the martyr. It was harder to do nothing. To endure your life. To wait.
Erica JongArt keeps one young, I think, because it keeps one perpetually a beginner, perpetually a child.
Erica JongA man assumes that a woman's refusal is just part of a game. Or, at any rate, a lot of men assume that. When a man says no, it's no. When a woman says no, it's yes, or at least maybe. There is even a joke to that effect. And little by little, women begin to believe in this view of themselves.
Erica Jong