To love somebody is not just a strong feeling - it is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise.
Erich FrommThe most beautiful as well as the most ugly inclinations of man are not part of a fixed biologically given human nature, but result from the social process which creates man.
Erich FrommSelfish persons are incapable of loving others, but they are not capable of loving themselves either.
Erich Fromm