Any group of persons โ prisoners, primitives, pilots, or patients โ develop a life of their own that becomes meaningful, reasonable and normal once you get close to it.
Erving GoffmanApproved attributes and their relation to face make every man his own jailer; this is a fundamental social constraint even though each man may like his cell.
Erving GoffmanAll the world is not, of course, a stage, but the crucial ways in which it isnโt are not easy to specify
Erving GoffmanOur sense of being a person can come from being drawn into a wide social unit; our sense of selfhood can arise through the little ways in which we resist the pull. Our status is backed by the solid buildings of the world, while our sense of personal identity often resides in the cracks
Erving Goffman