This is an attraction based Universe. You cannot say no. You are always saying, 'Yes please, yes please, yes please,' with your attention.
I'm getting better at it everyday.
Being happy is a very personal thing-and it really has nothing to do with anyone else.
Fear only exists when you do not understand that you have the power to project thought and that the Universe will respond.
There is never a crowd on the leading edge.
You do not invite experience with your 'yes' and exclude it with your 'no'. There is no exclusion in this attraction-based Universe. Your focus in the invitation.