Gallantry of mind consists in saying flattering things in an agreeable manner.
Francois de La RochefoucauldIt is with certain good qualities as with the senses; those who have them not can neither appreciate nor comprehend them in others.
Francois de La RochefoucauldWhat we call generosity is for the most part only the vanity of giving; and we exercise it because we are more fond of that vanity than of the thing we give.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld