You start acting in spite of your neuroses, not because of them.

I always choose to do the thing that scares me.

It's also easy to fall back into what's familiar, what feels safe, what you've done before.

You can only lead by example.

The best kind of kinky sex is to have kinky sex with your wife or husband, the person you love

Each of us needs something - food, liquor, pot, whatever - to help us survive. Dracula needs blood.

There's nothing like the bravery and the strength and the extraordinary optimism of a five-year-old child in a cancer hospital, fighting to live. It's there inside the spirit.