Go for someone who is proud to have you.
I enjoy singing my songs in front of people. I enjoy being involved in making the artwork for albums and stupid stuff like that.
Smile, it's easier than explaning why you're sad
Distance sometimes lets you know who's worth keeping and who's worth letting go.
I won't touch on risky, because that's subjective. People are just afraid of things too much. Afraid of things that don't necessarily merit fear.
When you're happy you enjoy the music, but when you're sad you understand the lyrics.