When someone brutally kills someone else, we call him "animalistic." But we consider ourselves "human" when we give to the poor.
Frans de WaalReligion may have become a codification of morality, and it may fortify it, but it's not the origin of it.
Frans de WaalIf you ask anyone, what is morality based on? These are the two factors that always come out: One is reciprocity, โฆ a sense of fairness, and the other one is empathy and compassion.
Frans de WaalReligions have a strong binding function and a cohesive element. They emphasize the primacy of the community as opposed to the individual, and they also help set one community apart from another that doesn't share their beliefs.
Frans de WaalStudies of reconciliation in primates have demonstrated that if the relationship value increases between two parties they are more willing to make peace.
Frans de WaalFemales avoid conflict. They are afraid of violence. The males, on the other hand, are less averse to strife. But once conflict breaks out, the males are much better at reconciling. In a study done in Finland, children who had quarreled were asked how much longer they intended to be angry at one another. The boys proudly said: "Oh, at least one or two days." The girls said "forever".
Frans de Waal