Self-acceptance is involved in this process. You have got to be able to look at both your dark and your light side and not get enamored or depressed by either.
Frederick LenzThose who dissolve their body of perception completely are absorbed into what we would call nirvana.
Frederick LenzThe problem with love is attachment; love makes you dependent. Unattached love - you love for the hell of it.
Frederick LenzAre you still carrying everyone who's insulted you, injured you or interfered with you? That's a lot of weight. I'd let it go, personally, and just move on and forget. Be in the moment. Don't even notice.
Frederick Lenz