Being a Buddhist monk means never losing one's optimism in spite of all difficulties. It also means being harder on yourself than any of your teachers ever were.
Frederick LenzIt is most critical for a woman, or for a man who is very sensitive and opens up his heart, to be very selective about the people they have sex with.
Frederick LenzIf you are losing power in your relationships, with others, then you have to try and remedy that, if you can't, you need to sever the relationship.
Frederick Lenz