We as women look around for things that we need to pay attention too just in case.

In so many ways I'm just thankful for common sense. Common sense keeps you out of trouble.

A lot of times if you go to counseling you find out the thing we think are big issues to our partner is not near as big as we think it is.

I don't know if it's still taboo in our culture but counseling is a great thing because sometimes you need someone from the outside to sit down and go over whatever the questions or conflicts are and come to a resolution.

Without a plan your kind of just like a dog chasing it's tail, your not getting anywhere.

Stay true to yourself because a lot of times women get so wrapped up in doing for a man that we forget to focus on us. A lot of times that is unattractive. They love us because we are independent and focused on the things that make us happy. Because when they see you happy, their happy!

The common sense has kind of kept me completely out of trouble. This is a life where it could have went a different way. I feel like I'm definitely being watched and I'm so thankful for that to feel this protected and loved and embraced by God.