We as women look around for things that we need to pay attention too just in case.

Honesty is a big deal, and when your honest everything will fall into place.

When your trying to be an adult in a relationship you seriously don't need to lie or front and try to put on this big picture or pseud like your something that your not.

Be honest about who you are and what your bringing to the table and what your expectations are.

A lot of times I feel like people stick around in a relationship because they feel a primal need to be with that person for whatever reason.

In the black community when we think of a couselor or sitting down with a therapist there is that taboo attached to people of being psychotic and crazy. Really it's not it's just sitting down having a conversation.

Sometimes I will read the whole script just to see what my character is doing, but I won't touch a script that I'm not in because it's just so much more exciting as a fan to me to watch the show as it's happening.