We as women look around for things that we need to pay attention too just in case.

A lot of times if you go to counseling you find out the thing we think are big issues to our partner is not near as big as we think it is.

There's obviously more of us than there is men, so that's why its important that you feel like its someone you want to be with long term. You should make it impossible for a man/woman to want someone else providing all the things within reason.

Without a plan your kind of just like a dog chasing it's tail, your not getting anywhere.

Your basically saying when your ready to marry somebody your wanting to spend your whole life with them with their flaws and all. If your still testing them then it's something there that needs to be worked out. That really falls on the person doing the test. A lot of times it is based on insecurities.

I don't know if it's still taboo in our culture but counseling is a great thing because sometimes you need someone from the outside to sit down and go over whatever the questions or conflicts are and come to a resolution.

It's true that the man stealer is always lurking around the corner it's just our job and your duty to make sure they back up!