I think a lot of men just automatically like to lie, because they feel like their protecting a women's feelings.

Honesty is a big deal, and when your honest everything will fall into place.

There's obviously more of us than there is men, so that's why its important that you feel like its someone you want to be with long term. You should make it impossible for a man/woman to want someone else providing all the things within reason.

A lot of times if you go to counseling you find out the thing we think are big issues to our partner is not near as big as we think it is.

A lot of times I feel like people stick around in a relationship because they feel a primal need to be with that person for whatever reason.

We as women look around for things that we need to pay attention too just in case.

Your basically saying when your ready to marry somebody your wanting to spend your whole life with them with their flaws and all. If your still testing them then it's something there that needs to be worked out. That really falls on the person doing the test. A lot of times it is based on insecurities.