In the black community when we think of a couselor or sitting down with a therapist there is that taboo attached to people of being psychotic and crazy. Really it's not it's just sitting down having a conversation.

Without a plan your kind of just like a dog chasing it's tail, your not getting anywhere.

It's true that the man stealer is always lurking around the corner it's just our job and your duty to make sure they back up!

When your trying to be an adult in a relationship you seriously don't need to lie or front and try to put on this big picture or pseud like your something that your not.

In so many ways I'm just thankful for common sense. Common sense keeps you out of trouble.

A relationship cannot survive the test of time without trust.

A lot of times I feel like people stick around in a relationship because they feel a primal need to be with that person for whatever reason.