Without a plan your kind of just like a dog chasing it's tail, your not getting anywhere.

A relationship cannot survive the test of time without trust.

When your trying to be an adult in a relationship you seriously don't need to lie or front and try to put on this big picture or pseud like your something that your not.

Your basically saying when your ready to marry somebody your wanting to spend your whole life with them with their flaws and all. If your still testing them then it's something there that needs to be worked out. That really falls on the person doing the test. A lot of times it is based on insecurities.

A lot of times if you go to counseling you find out the thing we think are big issues to our partner is not near as big as we think it is.

Stay true to yourself because a lot of times women get so wrapped up in doing for a man that we forget to focus on us. A lot of times that is unattractive. They love us because we are independent and focused on the things that make us happy. Because when they see you happy, their happy!

A lot of times I feel like people stick around in a relationship because they feel a primal need to be with that person for whatever reason.