A lot of times if you go to counseling you find out the thing we think are big issues to our partner is not near as big as we think it is.

I think most women we go through a stage in relationship, this is men and women where I'm trusting you, but now I got to test it, I have to make sure your the real deal.

Everybody when you propose and talk about putting your life together, the ultimate goal is the same. I think sometimes people forget your background and however you were raised. You want to have a different route to get to that goal.

In the black community when we think of a couselor or sitting down with a therapist there is that taboo attached to people of being psychotic and crazy. Really it's not it's just sitting down having a conversation.

When your trying to be an adult in a relationship you seriously don't need to lie or front and try to put on this big picture or pseud like your something that your not.

A lot of times I feel like people stick around in a relationship because they feel a primal need to be with that person for whatever reason.

In so many ways I'm just thankful for common sense. Common sense keeps you out of trouble.