Once you identify and learn to speak your spouse’s primary love language, I believe that you will have discovered the key to a long-lasting, loving marriage. Love need not evaporate after the wedding, but in order to keep it alive most of us will have to put forth effort to learn a secondary love language. We cannot rely on our native tongue if our spouse does not understand it. If we want them to feel the love we are trying to communicate, we must express it in his or her primary love language.

Life's deepest meaning is not found in accomplishments , but in relationships

The person who is "in-love" has the ilusion that his beloved is perfect.

Love is the most powerful weapon in the world for good. I really believe that.

Recent research has indicated that the average individual listens for only seventeen seconds before interrupting and interjecting his own ideas.

Sex is the joining of two bodies; love is the joining of two souls.

Ask yourself: Does the action I am considering have any potential for dealing with the wrong and helping the relationship? And is it best for the person at whom I am angry? The two most constructive options are either to confront the person in a helpful way, or to consciously decide to overlook the matter.