People do not get married planning to divorce. Divorce is the result of a lack of preparation for marriage and the failure to learn the skills of working together as teammates in an intimate relationship.
Love doesn't keep a score of wrongs. Love doesn't bring up past failures. (1 Cor 13:5)
I am amazed by how many individuals mess up every new day with yesterday.
I think people desperately want to feel love.
True love cannot begin until the "in love" experience has run it's course.
You cannot force someone to accept an expression of love. You can only offer it. If it is not accepted, you must respect the other person's decision.