Music gives voices to people struggling to come out of themselves.
I've been through Hell with some of the members of my old band, and Hell is highly stressful.
I keep my house tidy, because then I can think clearly. I feel the same about myself. Presenting yourself well is a working-class thing - my dad was a printer, but he wore a tie most days. The ungroomed look belongs more to the middle classes.
Do not dehumanize others.
I'm an atheist. I don't 'believe' at all.
My instinct is to be very controlling.