One may desire a spurious respect and precedence among one's fellow monks, and the veneration of outsiders. "Both monks and laity should think it was my doing. They should accept my authority in all matters great or small." This is a fool's way of thinking. His self-seeking and conceit just increase.
Gautama BuddhaJust as gold is burnt, cut and rubbed, Examine my words carefully and Do not accept them simply out of respect
Gautama BuddhaHolding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. A good friend who points out mistakes and imperfections and rebukes evil is to be respected as if he reveals a secret of hidden treasure.
Gautama BuddhaThere are two obstacles to enlightenment: 1. Thinking you know. 2 Thinking you don't know.
Gautama Buddha