Every experience, no matter how bad it seems, holds within a blessing of some kind. The goal is to find it.
Gautama BuddhaDo not have as friends harmful people, the wise person does not associate with the worst of people. Have as friends virtuous people, the wise person associates with the best of people.
Gautama BuddhaSpeak only endearing speech, speech that is welcomed. Speech, when it brings no evil to others, is pleasant.
Gautama Buddha