I've successfully lobbied and testified for stalking laws in several states, but I would trade them all for a high school class that would teach young men how to hear “no,” and teach young women that it's all right to explicitly reject.

You have the gift of a brilliant internal guardian that stands ready to warn you of hazards and guide you through risky situations.

I've successfully lobbied and testified for stalking laws in several states, but I would trade them all for a high school class that would teach young men how to hear “no,” and teach young women that it's all right to explicitly reject.

Denial is a save now, pay later scheme.

I encourage people to remember that "no" is a complete sentence.

Only human beings can look directly at something, have all the information they need to make an accurate prediction, perhaps even momentarily make the accurate prediction, and then say that it isn't so.

Most men fear getting laughed at or humiliated by a romantic prospect while most women fear rape and death.