Coming out to gays is a way of affirming sanity and self-worth.
We have many cases of men committing suicide rather than face their own individuality. I know of no case of a woman who committed suicide because she was gay.
All love is original, no matter how many other people have loved before.
An essential idea is that if you give to some person or endeavor in life, you will make that more important.
And I've known people who came out with a sense of torture.
Homophobia is just that: a phobia.