We have many cases of men committing suicide rather than face their own individuality. I know of no case of a woman who committed suicide because she was gay.

But the cure for most obstacles is, Be decisive.

As I said, men value their independence in a weird way, above practically everything.

Every man wants to feel that his woman would love him apart from anything else.

Men are actually the weaker sex.

My father, who was from a wealthy family and highly educated, a lawyer, Yale and Columbia, walked out with the benefit of a healthy push from my mother, a seventh grade graduate, who took a typing course and got a secretarial job as fast as she could.

Coming out to gays is a way of affirming sanity and self-worth.