Homophobia is just that: a phobia.
Every man wants to feel that his woman would love him apart from anything else.
I felt like an apostle of the obvious and people imagined that I was doing something daring.
My father, who was from a wealthy family and highly educated, a lawyer, Yale and Columbia, walked out with the benefit of a healthy push from my mother, a seventh grade graduate, who took a typing course and got a secretarial job as fast as she could.
And I've known people who came out with a sense of torture.
But the cure for most obstacles is, Be decisive.