But the cure for most obstacles is, Be decisive.

All who love are conspirators.

An essential idea is that if you give to some person or endeavor in life, you will make that more important.

Men spend their whole lives showing that they're strong and silent. They fight for independence the way women struggle to connect.

My dearest friend in the movement is Jack Nichols. If there were no such thing as gay or straight, we would still talk and share experiences till the end of time.

But the cure for most obstacles is, Be decisive.

It wouldn't have mattered to my mother if I married a black, was gay, lived in a commune or wore a dress.