It's a matter of whether you see the self as fundamentally in relationship to other selves or not - whether you see the boundary between self and the world as relatively permeable, which makes you "interdependent" (collectivist) in outlook, or relatively impermeable, which makes you "independent" (individualistic).
Gish JenIt's human to hear stories and to know how people live and to imagine how that is for them. It's very interdependent!
Gish Jen