It's human to hear stories and to know how people live and to imagine how that is for them. It's very interdependent!
Gish JenIt's a matter of whether you see the self as fundamentally in relationship to other selves or not - whether you see the boundary between self and the world as relatively permeable, which makes you "interdependent" (collectivist) in outlook, or relatively impermeable, which makes you "independent" (individualistic).
Gish JenMany women tend toward the interdependent end of things, we tend to see ourselves in relationship to others to a far greater degree than men.
Gish JenChinese language tends to be quick, economical. To know what people are saying, you always need to know what the context is.
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