We feel very celebratory and positive that we have created a voyage across the DMZ in peace and reconciliation that was said to be impossible.

Having someone who looks like us but thinks like them is worse than having no one at all.

She is a water bug on the surface of life.

It's not okay for a woman to be in control of her own body, her own reproductive system, much less of her life. There's opposition even to that. So passivity is rewarded as feminine.

... patriarchy creates megapatterns that affect us all--even as we forge different individual choices within them--just as do themegapatterns of nationalism or racism.

No one can give us power. If we aren’t part of the process of taking it, we won’t be strong enough to use it.

Happy or Unhappy, families are all mysterious.