When the gender role starts to descend, boys get into the masculine box.

Pornography is about dominance. Erotica is about mutuality.

Labeling makes the invisible visible, but it's limiting. Categories are the enemy of connecting. Link, don't rank.

There is always one true inner voice. Trust it.

Some women and men seem to need each other.

I definitely think men can be leaders. I see an analogy in the case of what helped me think about racism, which was to find parallels with sexism. In other words, I don't think I was such a great ally until I got mad on my own behalf.

Only when women rebel against patriarchal standards does female muscle become more accepted.