Though both erotica and pornography refer to verbal or pictorial representations of sexual behavior, they are as different as a room with doors open and one with doors locked. The first might be a home, but the second could only be a prison.

Behave like everything you do matters.

Women can be vivacious. We are allowed more varieties of facial expression and gestures. Men must be rocklike.

We feel very celebratory and positive that we have created a voyage across the DMZ in peace and reconciliation that was said to be impossible.

Where men come to and women come together most intimately in sexuality in the home has become suffused with violence.

We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.

Our own lives feel so disordered and confusing, so it's amazing to me that the filmmakers caught the personal, emotional high points and low points of my life and not just the public aspects.