Realize that to have friends one must first be a friend. Make friendship a priority in your life.
Goswami KriyanandaJoy is not dependent upon outward circumstances. Joy is something that we can have under all circumstances when we are sad or happy. Outward circumstances are always neutral. They seem to be happy or sad according to the happy or sad attitudes of the mind.
Goswami KriyanandaHappiness is like a plant: It must be watered daily with giving thoughts and actions.
Goswami KriyanandaI've've seen some people like this that no matter what happens they've got something cheerful to feel about it. It's not always easy, but if we do it as a deliberate sward of battle rather then thinking 'Well, I'm not really feeling that way and therefore I shouldn't say that I am'. No! Make yourself that way!
Goswami Kriyananda