Grief and disappointment are like hate: they make men ugly with self-pity and bitterness. And how selfish they make us too.
Graham GreenePerhaps the comparison is closer to the Chinese cook who leaves hardly any part of a duck unserved.
Graham GreeneTo be in love is to see yourself as someone else sees you, it is to be in love with the falsified and exalted image of yourself. In love we are incapable of honor - the courageous act is no more than playing a part to an audience of two.
Graham Greene