Pop science goes flying off in all kinds of fashionable directions, and it often drags a lot of SF writers with it. I've been led astray like that myself at times.
Greg EganNo one grows up. That's one of the sickest lies they ever tell you. People change. People compromise. People get stranded in situations they don't want to be inโฆ and they make the best of it. But don't try to tell me it's some kind ofโฆ glorious preordained ascent into emotional maturity. It's not.
Greg EganIf we spend all our time gazing at the wonders ahead without remembering where we're standing right now, we're going to trip and fall flat on our face, over and over again.
Greg Egan