You really have to begin by figuring out what kind of person you are. The tip is to really take a look at yourself.
Gretchen RubinYour unhappiness doesn't help anyone else - and in fact, as I mentioned in another answer, happy people are more altruistically inclined. So happiness is not a selfish goal.
Gretchen RubinI have a passion for children's literature. Young adult literature. I love it. I've always loved it.
Gretchen RubinThe most reliable predictor of not being lonely is the amount of contact with women. Time spent with men doesn't make a difference.
Gretchen Rubin