Say “no” only when it really matters. Wear a bright red shirt with bright orange shorts? Sure. Put water in the toy tea set? Okay. Sleep with your head at the foot of the bed? Fine. Samuel Johnson said, “All severity that does not tend to increase good, or prevent evil, is idle."
Gretchen RubinThe number one resolution that people mention to me as something that's made them happier is - to my surprise - making the bed.
Gretchen Rubin