Do not determine to change your life eventually. If you have decided to change your life, it is already changing.

Cultivate night-blooming jasmine near your bedroom window, and dream of men you've always longed for.

Aloneness, like life, becomes more interesting when you realize it's a present.

Collect treasures that have meaning only to you. Put them in a special place, and explain them to no one, except when you're giving interviews to Time magazine.

Think of your husband as a lover from a previous life, and wonder what you did to deserve him.

Do not determine to change your life eventually. If you have decided to change your life, it is already changing.