I'm not sad at all about turning 40.
Having a baby takes so much from you. It's the most glorious thing you'll ever do, but the aftermath is not so glorious!
I'm just going to live my life and be who I am.
I've learned my tricks. I know what I like. I do not wait around. I initiate. And I'm not all about frequency - I favor intensity.
My whole life I've had the fear that I was going to be abandoned.
I'm learning to accept the lack of privacy as the real downer in my profession.