After my divorce, I was struggling to find my own voice. Through reading, I gained my power back.

First of all, I'm not pretty. I'm not a world class beauty, ladies and gentlemen. I'm just a guy. I was slow going and stuff like that. I was just never that brand of news.

During really difficult times in my life when I start questioning why I am struggling with something, I often turn to books to understand myself better.

I see women in their 30s getting plastic surgery, pulling this up and tucking that back. It's like a slippery slope - once you start you pull one thing one way and then you think, 'Oh my God, I've got to do the other side.'

I am a hopeless romantic. And I won't stop till I get it right.

I think it's always best to be who you are.

I archive a lot of my clothes and have them wrapped up and in boxes. I call them 'little tombs' and keep them in a storage space... I would never get rid of the dress I wore on the night I won my Oscar. When I die, someone can have it, but not a minute before!