What comes to a person in his or her life, however difficult it may be, perhaps will help a person move closer to God. The response to tribulation is abr, which is patience, perseverance, steadfastness, and resolve. Allฤh loves the patient; part of the reason the tribulation comes is to draw the quality of patience out of them - He loves this quality.
Hamza YusufMy experience on this planet is that if you treat people with respect, they tend to treat you with respect.
Hamza YusufI definitely have sympathy for people who are struggling. I've met with young Muslims who have told me about their struggles.
Hamza Yusuf