One heart is not connected to another through harmony alone. They are, instead, linked deeply through their wounds. Pain linked to pain, fragility to fragility. There is no silence without a cry of grief, no forgiveness without bloodshed, no acceptance without a passage through acute loss. That is what lies at the root of true harmony.
Haruki MurakamiMy grandpa always said asking a question is embarrassing for a moment, but not asking is embarrassing for a lifetime.
Haruki MurakamiCrying is personal. On the other hand, laughing is more general . Laughing makes our hearts wider.
Haruki Murakami